Today, as usual, I was having a conversation with my mentor when he shared something that struck me like a speeding truck. It was a simple yet profound truth about life—one that I believe the world desperately needs to hear. He called it the Mastery-Humility Proportionality.

He explained that as people rise to mastery in their craft—achieving success, prosperity, and unwavering confidence—their humility often declines. Success can cloud perspective, making people believe they are invincible, superior, or above others. But true greatness lies not in unchecked confidence, but in the ability to intentionally double one’s humility as success grows.

In ancient Rome, victorious generals were given lavish parades, known as triumphs, to celebrate their conquests. They rode through the streets in golden chariots while the crowds cheered. But the Romans, in their wisdom, understood the intoxicating power of success. So, they assigned a simple yet vital role to a soldier—a mere whisperer. This soldier’s sole duty was to stand behind the general and whisper continuously into his ear:

“Memento mori—Remember that you are just a man, not a god.”

No matter how great the victory, no matter how high the pedestal, this reminder kept the general grounded. It prevented the arrogance that often accompanies power and ensured that he remained connected to his own humanity.

This lesson from history carries an undeniable truth for our modern world. No matter how successful we become—whether in business, art, leadership, or any endeavor—we must remind ourselves: we are only human. The moment we lose sight of humility, we lose sight of wisdom. Success is fleeting, but character endures.

So, as you climb the ladder of mastery, ask yourself: Am I becoming more humble or more prideful? True mastery is not just about skill or power; it is about maintaining the humility to recognize that we are never above the simple truth—we are not gods, we are human.

Let this be our whispering soldier, our silent reminder: Stay humble, no matter how high you rise.